This is therefore terrible…

Arie Luyendyk Jr. and wife  Lauren Burnham shared heartbreaking news this past weekend that they had recently experienced a miscarriage. The few, famously in love plus married after their operate on  The Bachelors , shared the news within an emotional  YouTube video directly for fans and followers.

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The particular couple, who already offers one child together — daughter  Alessi , who celebrated her very first birthday on Friday — was overjoyed early on to become a growing family of four shortly. But the anticipation soon considered sadness, as they recounted within the video, upon learning they had lost the baby.

Writing in the video’ s description section, the particular couple stated (below):

“ We made so many programs. We bought a new home with more space, we prepared how we wanted to tell you every and we envisioned our long term with Alessi’ s small brother/sister. We were planning to talk about our journey through being pregnant with you, but unfortunately we all didn’ t get the delighted story we had hoped for. ”

Ugh… so , so sad.

The couple points out through the video how the maternity — which was unplanned, as well as a surprise to them as it unfolded early on — came along much more slowly than expected. Days into it, doctors realized some thing was amiss, as the child wasn’ t developing since it normally would.

Arie explained the “ roller coaster of emotions” in going through the losing the unborn baby and dealing with the psychological aftermath of it all, as well, saying:

“ It’ ersus been a roller coaster of emotions going through scared at first a little bit since it was so soon, after that happy, then stress plus worry for weeks at a time, and then obviously today was your bad news. It’ t consumed our thoughts the past month. It’ s already been hard holding this back again from everybody. doesn’ t possess the happiest outcome … yet hopefully the next time you see a with the word pregnancy it’ s positive and it’ s good news. We’ lmost all get through this. ”

An optimistic develop, for sure, and we’ lso are hoping the pair can get through it just fine, yet it’ s definitely an extremely, very sad event.

Here’ s the entire video, showing the couple’ s entire journey via this difficult time (below):

Extremely real, very raw, and incredibly honest, that’ s for certain.

Such unfortunate stuff, too. We’ lso are sending all our like to Arie and Lauren in this trying time!

Most certainly not an easy thing to go through, yet we wish them power and comfort moving forward.